Ok, so here is my dilema this time round... It just gets on my last nerve how guys who have kids, get away with not taking care of their kids. They dont see there kids, they dont buy the necessary things for there kids, they dont even bother to call & ask how their child is doing. They just sit around playing video games, going camping, hanging with so called friends, drinking, etc.. Yet they think that they dont have any other responsibilites that other ADULTS have.
Take for instance, my daughters dad, or as I like to call him, her sperm donor. He's 25 years old, lives in a 2 bedroom apt with his mom, his brother & sister. After putting up with a lot of things from him, I got tired and said thats enough. The last straw was when my grandmother caught him in bed doing something to himself, with my daughter who was 5 months at the time laying in the bed right next to him. So I told him he had to go.
He moved to his moms, where he is free to do as he pleases. He's only seen my daughter a couple times in the past 4 months, and even then it was only for a few seconds cause his mom was rushing him. He calls every now & then, saying that he wants to see her, but then when I tell him when & where, he calls back & says that his mom doesnt have the gas nor the money for gas to drive him there.
When he calls, he spends a few seconds asking how my daughter is (like he really cares), & then he automatically starts asking when we are getting back together & when can we go out. He never asks if my daughter needs anything. Thats because he was told by his mom that he doesnt need to worry about anyone but himself. He's only bought her food one time since he's been gone, and even then I had to argue with him about it, cause his mom said that he wasnt going to buy anything. So now my last resort is applying for child support, which really isnt going to do much good, cause he doesnt have a job nor does he bother looking for one.
Now on to MEN who are actual FATHERS... My dad (well, technically step dad), takes care of his kids, pays his child support all the time, and does a lot for everyone. Yet his ex wife is a money hungry fat ass bitch that has to constantly cause trouble for him. She's never satisfied with the amount of money that she gets, so she's constantly pushing for going back to court & all that shit, which causes even more expenses, cause then my dad has to pay for her shit ass of a lawyer.
There's my problem.... Scum like my ex, get to do just about anything they want no matter what. Whereas MEN like my dad never get a break in anything, even though they take care of all their responsibilities & do what needs to be done.
I guess I better end this one here, cause I could go on for hours on this subject. Until next time...
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