End of Another Year.. On To The Next...

Well Ladies & Gentlemen we are reaching the end of yet another tedious year, in this world that we call life. What have you all managed to accomplish this year? Anything?

I've managed quite a few things actually.... I had my first child in January, started back to school, got rid of my daughter's dead beat sperm donor, no longer have my dad talking to me, lost a couple friends, gained a couple new ones, got some remodeling done to our house. All and all, has been a very eventful and challenging year.

So, my last blog I believe I was bitching about all the good guys getting shit on while pieces of shit like my ex get whatever the fuck they want. Well, nothings changed there. It's been 6 months since he's moved back to his moms, and only hear from him once every few weeks with excuses as always. He was working during Halloween and was supposed to give me some money for my daughter. But then he realized I wasnt going to take his ass back, got pissed and didnt send shit for her. Why would I take his ass back when he never wanted to get a job in the first place. Plus him jacking off in bed with my daughter laying right next to him was the last straw.

Then I get a text a couple weeks ago stating that he's supposedly sorry for not sending the money like he was supposed to, but mommy dearest wouldn't let him. Thats pretty pathetic when you're 25 years old, making your own money and mommy tells you that you cant take care of your own kid. Actually just goes to show her lack of parenting skills. But Halloween is over and he once again doesnt have a job, but thats no surprise there really. Even if he did, still wouldnt recieve anything from him.

I started school back in April, at University of Phoenix, to finish out my degree in Medical Billing & Coding. So far, I'm in my 3rd term, I start my 4th term this January. If everything goes as planned I'll be finished in 2 years. So far so good. This way, when my daughter gets old enough and starts going through school, she can say "well if my mom did it, then so can I". I'm just hoping that she doesnt wait forever, like I did.

My family has shrunk this year. My dad no longer talks to me, & wont let my youngest sister talk to me. All because he went & got himself in trouble along with his nutty ass girlfriend, but of course it's everyones fault but his own. Thats ok though, he's the one missing out on his granddaughter, not me.

I've cleaned house on my friends list. I've decided that I'm done with all the drama & fake assholes that pretend to be friend, but when you need them, they are too busy. I've got a select few, that knows all the issues I've dealt with this past year, and they continue to be there no matter what. You all know who you are.

Even though I've had some ups & downs this year, I've still had a hand full of family members that I could count on no matter what. My wonderful mom & dad (who has filled the void of my biological dad, even though he doesnt have to), both my grandmas, Jennifer (my sister & partner in crime lol), & my Aunt Shell. Without them, I don't know what Kaleigh & I would do. I couldn't ask for anything more.

So, I'll end this here.. I'm sure I'll have more to post later as we get to Kaleigh's 1st Christmas. If not, see you next year!!!