Some People Just Never Grow Up...

The title says it all... I had my first baby January 7, 2010 and last month had to kick her so called father out and he decided to go live back with his mom, who has recently been in trouble herself. Anyways, my daughters "dad" (and I use that term loosely) is 25 years old and acts like a little kid still. Course he blames it on him having ADHD but whatever.

Anyways, it's been 6 months since my daughter was born and not once has his dad or mom ever call and ask to see my daughter. His dads girlfriend lives like 10 minutes away from us, and my daughters dad has told him several times when he is over at his girlfriends house to call us and we will bring her over to see him. Not once has he done that, even when we called him, he'd say they were too busy.

So now that he's moved back with mommy, I told him that he needs to help me buy food and stuff for my daughter. Well, his mom & dad said that the only one that he needs to worry about is himself & no one else. Then when I told him that I'll just go & file for child support (which I was trying not to do), they changed their tone.

His mom & dad are trying to say that they are trying to help me out with stuff, but I'm treating them like shit & keeping my daughter away from them. How in the hell am I treating them like shit & how am I keeping my daughter away from them? They both know where I live, they both know my phone number & facebook page. Not once has either one of them contacted me since she's been born to see her.

I'm the one thats trying to find a job, go to school, get a car, try to remember to remind my grandmother to take her last diabeties shot at night, help my mom & dad, deal with my other whacked out family members & take care of my daughter all at the same time. So i dont think that asking him to help provide things for her is too much too ask.

I think I should probably end this one here otherwise it would probably end up about 20 pages long.